If someone tells you otherwise then they are struggling with living their own life and they’ve decided it’s easier to tell other people what to do. They are afraid of their own reality, but you can help by showing them how you live fearlessly and with conviction.
Goal: Embrace your life today exactly as it is, with all its flaws and perfections, its hopes and disappointments. Inspire other to live their lives more presently and more fully, by showing them the faith and confidence you have in the life YOU are living. Lead by example.